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Dad

This is my dad. This is the only time I ever saw him.

Sometime in the early 80s, I went to visit my dad. My parents divorced when I was 3, and this was the first time I'd seen him since then. (My mother got so upset when visited after the divorce, her doctor told him not to come back.)

I spent about 3 hours with him, and felt a connection like I'd never felt before. (notice the Apple IIe and the 2 floppy drives in the corner.)

I had always though I was better off without him. When I was young my friends often complained about their dads, so I thought I had it made. Now that  I have my own sons, I know what I missed.

I have a painting he painted of my mother, probably about 40, holding a baby. I've always liked it. One night a few years ago I dreamed he flew through the house, over my bed, and to the painting.

The next morning my sister called to say he had died during the night.


 

Posted on Wednesday, August 13, 2008 at 11:53PM by Registered CommenterOwen Long | Comments3 Comments

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Hi Owen, mom forwarded me the link to this site. This picture of your dad totally sums up my memory of him also- I only barely remember meeting him once or twice and 'twas likely in the 80s as well. I look forward to more of your scans... *adding RSS to reader*

Our youngest, Milo, is said to have a bit of the Long or Miller side to his look... one of the paintings your dad did of you as a baby has a strong resemblance!

August 16, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterSandra

Having watched you as "Big(10 years older)Sis" and Milo as "Grandma," I can attest to the resemblance. It is a little disconcerting actually, like a tiny time warp running around getting in trouble.

August 18, 2008 | Unregistered CommenterMary

Dear Owen
I began looking tonight.....I found the photo of your Dad and your thoughts concerning him, your meeting and the conection you felt very moving...

September 10, 2008 | Unregistered Commenterchris martens

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